Barn Tours, An Educational Experience

August 28th, 2010
Grooming gives children a hands on experience.

Grooming gives children a hands on experience.

Gypsy and Makhi enjoy a moment together.

Gypsy and Makhi enjoy a moment together.

It seems we are all facinated by them and enjoy their beauty but, many of us have never been close to a horse. Barn tours are a perfect way for children and adults to get up close and personal in a calm and friendly enviroment. I schedule my tours for small groups or individuals. These tours give participants the opportunity to learn about horses and the huge responsibility that comes with them.”What do horses eat? Do they bite? Why do some horses wear shoes?” These are all things children want to know.  Sometimes, depending on the weather I will do a mini performance with one of the horses. A tour doesn’t have to be complicated. Many just want the opportunity to touch one. If I have a child that is comfortable with the horse I often let them walk the horse and maybe even do a trick or two. Gypsy is perfect for tours because of her calm nature. Children also love grooming Savannah because she is so tiny. We end the tour with some carrots or apples and all children get a gift packet from us reminding them of their visit.  Did you visit?  Leave a comment!!!

Woman in the Mirror:From Mom to Grandma

August 22nd, 2010
Makhi enjoys being a big brother.

Makhi enjoys being a big brother.

Grandparents are important people in a child's life.
Grandparents are important people in a child’s life.

I always wanted a big family with lots of kids. My daughter’s, Jenna and Tracy are my world. Terry and I didn’t really have grandparents that were a part  of our life. We had hoped our parents would be different but, it didn’t turn out quite the way we invisioned. Oh, our parents were there but, they didn’t really spend much quality time with the girls. Tracy’s boyfriend, Leon has a son, Makhi and he is  our unofficial grandson. It was hard to get close to him for fear some judge would yank him from our lives. It’s a complicated situation. I am sure it’s hard for a woman to be a mother to a child she really has no say over. Now that Tracy is a mother I hope that she and her family can settle down into a somewhat normal routine. Once a week I get Makhi and we spend the afternoon playing games, doing puzzles, cooking and grooming horses. He will start school next week and I will miss this special time. I want to be a positive influence on his life, someone he can depend on and someone he has many happy memories of. Now we will share that time with his brother, Kaidyn. It doesn’t matter how many grandchildren there are, each will be special in some way and I will have that something special we like to do together. Some people don’t like being grandparents because it makes them feel old.  I feel the opposite, children keep us young. We don’t stop playing because we get old, we grow old because we stop playing. “George Bernard Shaw”.  Did you visit?  Leave a comment!!!

The End of Summer

August 20th, 2010
Sundae and I visit with Daisy troop 984.

Sundae and I visit with Daisy troop 984.

This year I visited camps at the local SPCA.

This year I visited camps at the local SPCA.

In spite of the 90 degree weather and numerous health issues with my horses, I still had a very productive summer. I did my usual visits to Heartland Equestrian Center in Frederica, Delaware where I talked about horse behavior and did a show with my horses. Cheyenne, my star mini, has been pulled from performing due to Founder. I am still trying to get this under control but, it has been very difficult. After 2 veterinarians and 3 farriers I am still trying to figure out the best course of treatment for her. I am heartbroken that she may not be with me for our Oct. show, Wild West Round-Up but, feel it best to concentrate on her recovery. This year I added the Kent County S.P.C.A. camps to my schedule, teaching about horse behavior, care and sharing some wonderful stories about my favorite animal. Bonnie Keller at Heartland added two camps for little tykes this summer and I helped her with those. My grandson, Makhi got to tag along and had a great time doing horsey stuff and riding of course.  All the pretty little girls were fun too! Wait till he gets a little older, we will have to keep a watchful eye on him. With all of this I still managed to do my 2 hours a week volunteering at the Kent County Library and  spent every Wednesday with my 4-H club, County Time 4-H, cooking, sewing, doing crafts and of course caring for the horses. On our last day the girls were treated to a trail ride at Heartland.  I now have a two week break and will begin organizing my fall events which include Outlaw Days, Wild West Round-Up and numerous craft shows. New to the schedule are hoop classes, I am working on a schedule with the Harrington Parks and Recreation for days and locations. I am very excited about this new adventure. Since retiring the Small World Dance Team I have found that I truely miss working with the kids. Watch my schedule, it’s on the side bar and check me out on Facebook for future events.   Let the beauty of what we love, be what we do. “Rumi”.  Did you visit?  Leave a comment!!!!

Weaning Your Foal

August 19th, 2010
At what age should we wean our foals?

At what age should we wean our foals?

I love riding through the countryside in spring because of all the new foals grazing in the pastures. Nature is so beautiful! Now all of those foals are a few months old and many will ask “When is a good time to wean my foal”? The word wean means to discontinue breast-feeding gradually, to detach. Separation from the mare is one of the most traumatic events in a foals life, so let us focus on the word gradually. Most people like to separate the mare and foal at about 3 months old and then it’s done. Several studies have been done determining that growth of the foal is not slowed if weaned at 3 months or 6 months. Personally I feel a foal is like an infant, it needs that nourishment and time with the mare. Unless there is a medical reason to do so I think waiting till at least 5-6 months is better. The foal learns from the mare and should be introduced to their surroundings and socialized with other horses before being turned out without the mares protection. Make sure your foal is eating solids and is in good health. Weaning doesn’t have to be so traumatic.  When I weaned Cheyenne  I separated her from Gypsy for an hour at a time several times a day, each day making the separation a little longer. At night she stayed in a stall by Dakota. Mare and foal were able to see each other and that gave comfort to both horses. I really enjoyed watching Dakota teach her the ways of the herd and especially enjoyed it when Cheyenne would play games with him. He would be eating and she would suddenly run by him as if to say ‘Come on old man, catch me if you can” and the race was on!  Enjoy your foals while they are young, there is so much to be learned simply by watching them.  Did you visit?  Leave a comment!!!

Country Cooking: Orange Cranberry Walnut Gems

August 9th, 2010
This muffin has all my favorite ingredients!

This muffin has all my favorite ingredients!

Once a week I like to have breakfast for dinner and I try a new muffin recipe. This week I tried this recipe and it is now one of my favorites!  Here is what you need: Preheat oven to 375. In large bowl mix 2 cups all purpose four, 1/2 cup sugar, 3/4 teaspoon baking soda and 1/2 teaspoon salt. In another bowl combine 1 egg, 2/3 cups buttermilk, 1/3 cup orange juice, 1/3 cup melted butter and 2 teaspoons grated orange peel. Slowly add dry ingredients to wet. When mixed well fold in 3/4 cup chopped cranberries and 1/2 cup chopped walnuts. Put into greased muffin pan and bake 18-20 minutes. Let cool, serve warm.  Did you visit?  Leave a comment!!!

Country Cooking: Polka-Dot Cookie Bars

August 8th, 2010
Chocolate lovers will love Polka-Dot Cookie Bars.

Chocolate lovers will love Polka-Dot Cookie Bars.

Chocolate lovers take notciec. My 4-H kids baked these bars this week and they were awesome!!! Here is what you need.  Pre-heat oven to 375. In large bowl mix 1 cup butter, softened, 3/4 cup sugar and 3/4 cup packed brown sugar. Add 2 eggs and 1/2 teaspoon almond extract. In another bowl combine 2 & 1/4 cups all purpose flour, 1/3 cup baking cocoa, 1 teaspoon baking soda and 1/2 teaspoon salt. Slowly pour into wet ingredients until mixed well.  You need 1 package (10-12 ounce)  of vanilla chips. Set aside 1/2 cup of vanilla chips and mix the rest into batter. Pour batter into  15 X 10 pan. Top with remaining chips and bake for 18-23 minutes. Cool and cut into bars.They taste great warm!!!!    Did you visit?  Leave a comment!!!!

Country Cooking: Old fashioned Blueberry Muffins

July 29th, 2010
Old fashioned Blue Berry Muffins

Old fashioned Blue Berry Muffins

Nothing says country than a fresh batch of muffins made with real blue berries! Here is a recipe that is quick and easy. Pre-heat oven to 400. In mixing bowl mix 1 cup all-purpose flour, 1/3 cup sugar, 1 teaspoon baking powder, 1/4 teaspoon salt, 1 egg, 1/4 cup milk, 2 tablespoons melted butter and 1/2  teaspoon vanilla. Once blended gently stir in 3/4  cup of blue berries, fresh or frozen ( if frozen do not thaw berries). Put batter into muffin tin and bake for 18-22 minutes. Serve warm.  Did you visit?  Leave a comment!!!

Gold Tissue Box

July 23rd, 2010
This project is simple and elegant.

This project is simple and elegant.

This week the girls at Country Time 4-H made tissue boxes. This box is one of my camp favorites because it’s simple and elegant. Because glue must dry, each side must be done separately. I like to use Elmers gel glue but the regular white glue is ok, too. Have a selection of noodles and each child does their own design. When all sides are decorated and dry (don’t do the back) the box can be spray painted with gold color.  Did you visit?  Leave a comment!!

Country Cooking: Trail Mix Cookies

July 23rd, 2010
If you love trail mix, you will love this cookie!

If you love trail mix, you will love this cookie!

This cookie has everything in it but, the kitchen sink. Or, so it seems. I love trail mix so I just had to try them and they are one of my favorites. Here is what you need: Heat oven to 375. Mix in bowl - 1 cup sugar, 1 cup packed brown sugar, 1/2 cup of margarine or 1 stick of butter , softened, and 1/2 cup shortening. Stir in 1 1/4 cups quick oats, 2 teaspoons vanilla and 2 eggs. Stir in 2 cups all-purpose flour, 1/4 cup wheat germ, 1 teaspoon baking powder and 1 teaspoon baking soda. Stir in 1 cup peanut butter. Add 2 cups candy coated peanut butter candies, 1 cup peanuts and 3/4 cups of raisins. Note: Do not over stir or cookies will be runny!  Drop by rounded tablespoons about 2 inches apart onto ungreased cookie sheet. Bake 9-10 minutes or until cookies are brown. Cool 5 minutes or until set so they don’t fall apart. Makes about 5 dozen. Enjoy!  Did you visit?  Leave a comment!!

Undemanding Time

July 16th, 2010
There is nothing more important in any relationship then "undemanding time".

There is nothing more important in any relationship then "undemanding time".

A few weeks ago a friend of mine was having problems getting close to one of her horses.  It was a new horse that had been neglected and didn’t trust humans. The mare also had a 4 week old foal that no one could touch. I explained that sometimes doing nothing is what we need to do.  I suggested “undemanding time”. This is where you simply go into your horses paddock area and sit. Don’t watch or stare at your horse as this can create pressure on the horse. Watch your horse or if your horse is comfortable, groom them. The point is you don’t ask them to do anything. Most people are always asking their horse to do something, stand, walk, ride, etc.. This is your time to just hang out with your horse. My friend’s son went out the next morning and did just what I had told him. I received this heart warming picture of him and a foal that came to him, just because she wanted to.  Isn’t that amazing! If you really want a relationship with your horse they have to know you are there for them in this very simple way. Try it, over time you will notice a difference.Did you visit? Leave a comment!!